Who I Am
I am an autistic guy with a message. I spent the first half of my life completely trapped in silence. The second – on becoming a free soul. I had to fight to get an education but I succeeded, graduating high school with a diploma and a 3.9 GPA. I am continuing my education in college. I communicate by typing on an iPad or a letter board. My first book, Ido inAutismland is an autism diary, telling the story of my symptoms, education, and journey into communication. My second book, In Two Worlds, is a novel. I hope through my work to help other autistic people find a way out of their silence too.
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The Courage to Hear, to Learn, to Change
Posted in attitude, autism, autism perceptions, autism theories, change, courage, parents, teachers
Story in the Times
I have been cooperating with a reporter from the Los Angeles Times, Tom Curwen, and a photographer, Genaro Molina, since last April. It appears in today’s Sunday Times. Here is the story.
Posted in autism, Los Angeles Times, nonverbal autism
Valuing Your Education
More on Autism and Fitness
Here is an interesting interview on Autism Spectrum Radio with my trainer, Mike Ramirez, (who recently wrote a guest post here), on autism and physical fitness. We can be fit too.
Posted in autism, exercise, health, physical fitness
Creating a Fitness Program for People with Autism
Recently I received a call from a parent asking if I could fitness train an autistic child. I had been a high school baseball coach for over 10 years. Much of my expertise in fitness had come from various experiences in working with athletes in strength and conditioning programs, working in fitness centers, through textbook study, and apprenticing other fitness experts. I also had 10 years of experience working as a behaviorist with autistic children. I had a sound understanding of both areas, but this was an opportunity to combine the two. I quickly discovered that despite the fact that people with autism face many physical challenges, there wasn’t much information out there or programs that addressed this area. In order to work with this child, I would have to start from scratch and develop a program tailored specifically for him.
When I began my research, I started to think about what was available to the autism community. School programs, like Adaptive PE, really didn’t address the issues I was going to try to work on. One problem I saw with APE, during my years as a behaviorist, is that it focused too much on teaching how to play certain games or sports, which I found to be too abstract, with not enough focus on getting the kids to move and use their bodies. Instead of focusing on functional movements, these programs produced more frustration because of the slow paced activities. I then questioned why people with autism don’t go to their local gym or just hire a trainer. This was obvious. First, even if a parent hired a personal trainer to work out their child, there was no guarantee that the trainer would have any understanding of autism and the challenges that accompany people living with this condition. Secondly, therapists like myself, don’t always have the fitness background to be able to work on the fitness side in a safe and knowledgeable way. Needless to say there weren’t many resources out there, so I was going to have to develop a program through the combination of my two experiences in both the fitness world and as a behaviorist.
I began to think about all of the different children I had worked with in the past and the physical challenges they faced each day. Many of the kids I had seen shared many similar physical characteristics like low muscle tone, poor coordination, lack of strength, lack of flexibility, balance issues, and overall limitations in their movements. Then there was the neurological aspect that impacted their physical functioning. Challenges with motor planning and sensory integration (proprioception and vestibular) were the most evident.Communication and behavioral challenges are also common among children with autism. Taking this into consideration, it became clear why there weren’t many programs out there for people with autism. There were so many issues that made it difficult to produce such a program. Safety was the first thing came to my mind. Initially I was uncertain how I was even going to get a child with autism to perform the basic functions of fitness. Although I had a great deal of experience in working with kids with autism on the behavioral side as well as many experiences working with neuro-typical people on the fitness end, I had never combined the two. Many autistic people are very out-of-shape and have significant gaps in their strength and mobility. With this in mind, I began
characteristics. Many of the children had bodies that had low muscle tone, very weak posterior chain and core muscles, tightness in the lower half, and very soft upper bodies (Physical). Some of the kids I met had difficulties with balance, coordination, motor planning, agility, the ability to perform compound movements, and be accurate in movements (Neuro). There were also deficits in communication, attention, and behavioral issues, which made it difficult to motivate them to perform for an extended period of time. Let’s face it; exercise can sometimes be painful and hard, especially in the beginning. To get the best results in each workout I focused on strength, compound movements, strengthening a specific muscle groups, and work on the constant varying functional movements at a high intensity.
It takes time to get the kids accustomed to the workload, the pacing, and to gain confidence in the movements. There are times when I need to be more of a motivational coach, than a fitness coach. It is definitely a process. All of my students are making gains in one way or another. Working on physical fitness has its obvious advantages when you consider the health benefits but when it comes to people with autism, the benefits are even greater. I have received feedback that fitness training has impacted things like: sleep patterns, energy levels, mood, attention, communication and behavior. One of my students expressed that exercising helps him to feel his body better. He also feels
it has been helpful with his pointing (typing). Exercise gives kids with autism added satisfaction and increased self-esteem when they connect their brain and their body and even strategies to deal with excess energy. Recently, the mother of a client told me that her son requested to do some pull-ups in the middle of a behavioral therapy session. He then proceeded to continue to perform his own routine of sit-ups and push-ups in combination until he relaxed.
Fitness is an area that has far too long been under utilized in the lives of people with autism. My mission is to change that, through my company, Special-Fit. I want to thank all of my students for inspiring me and helping me develop this program. It was because of the relationship I’ve created with them and their families, that forever changed the way I view people with autism. They have taught me more about breaking through limitations than any other individuals I have met in my lifetime.
Michael Ramirez
Posted in autism, exercise, fitness, health, muscle development, Special-fit, working out
Challenge
Every day of my life I face a kind of moral dilemma. My autism makes self control very difficult. It takes more effort to sit still in class than to do the intellectual work. I have big personal goals for myself. I prefer to have a full life than a hidden, bored one in some remedial class like most other severely autistic people. It is my mission to help them get an education too. None of this is a dilemma. I am clear on my goals, but I struggle morally with my inner forces. My body is programmed in a different way than typical people. It has internal orders that differ from my mind’s intentions. My struggle to control myself is to be kind to others, thoughtful of the space of others and not disruptive in class. Each day I remind myself to do this because it is the right thing to do in spite of how hard it is to accomplish.
Posted in autism, autism education, mainstreaming, self control
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Autism Poetry
It is starting to be noticed that non-verbal autistic people are writing books. There is mine, out for one month, and a few others by teenagers. Why is that the books are written by teenagers? I think it is because we are the from the first generation of autistic people to be taught typing.
I have a good friend, Sydney Edmond, who wrote a book of poems, The Purple Tree, four years ago. Like me, she studied with Soma and was released from her solitude. Like me she has a mom who is trying to give her a fully normal experience in life. But unlike me, she is a poet. I wanted to introduce you to another autistic writer, but with a totally different voice and style. Autistic people are as different from from each other as anyone else.
Here is a taste of Syd’s lyrical poetry.
The Ocean in Winter
As I linger on a thought
looking out to sea
I wonder if a little bit
the sea remembers me.
We wallowed in the summer,
We walked in spring and fall,
Winter’s here, and I fear,
It knows me not at all.
It wails upon the shore,
eating up the sand,
angry, loud, and thrashing,
making it’s demand.
Teaming waves will tear at you,
some will tear you down,
laughing at your thrashing
until you’re surely drowned.
Is this the sea who played with me
beneath a sky of blue;
that tickled at my toes
and lapped my ankles, too?
What is it makes it happen?
I want to understand.
Want my sea that sings to me
to come and take my hand.
And so I’ll wait as patient
as the birds up in the sky
for warm sunny days,
and a sea that plays,
to return.
Posted in autism, Communication, poetry, Sydney Edmond
Inspiring Man
Last week I had the opportunity to hear Nick Vujicic at an event for the Friendship Circle. If you don’t know who he is, Nick Vujicic is a man who has no limbs at all. He was born this way, but despite his challenges, he is freer inside than most people. I so relate to his struggles though mine have been different in many ways. Still, key challenges have been identical.
How do you find peace with faith? How do you accept the situation and stop the sorrow? How do you overcome limitations? How do you deal with other people who stare, or don’t know you’re normal inside?
It is more a decision to live fully than anything else. Nick had a tough time as a kid. So did I. He had to fight to get an education in school. So did I. With no limbs, independence is impossible. With severe autism, independence is impossible too. But he learned that the road to freedom is not in having no challenges, it is making the most of the reality life has dealt you. The life he got is harder than average, by loads, and he had to live bigger than normal to just keep up. He is not ashamed, embarrassed, or hiding. He lets people get comfortable with him. That is a great gift.
I had a chance to meet him briefly. He has a cool wheelchair that is tall. It brings him to eye level, more or less. I gave him my book. It inspired me a lot to meet a man who bravely lives life fully, and does good, important work, even though he might have given up. Giving up is the easy way to run from pain but he decided that his life had a higher purpose. He is a role model to many people who despair over much less.
For me, it is a great reminder to count my blessings and to remember that challenges are meant to be overcome.
Posted in autism, disability, emotions, Nick Vujicic


