Who I Am
I am an autistic guy with a message. I spent the first half of my life completely trapped in silence. The second – on becoming a free soul. I had to fight to get an education but I succeeded, graduating high school with a diploma and a 3.9 GPA. I am continuing my education in college. I communicate by typing on an iPad or a letter board. My first book, Ido inAutismland is an autism diary, telling the story of my symptoms, education, and journey into communication. My second book, In Two Worlds, is a novel. I hope through my work to help other autistic people find a way out of their silence too.
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Opening of my Remarks at CSUN Department of Special Education Commencement
Creating a Fitness Program for People with Autism
Recently I received a call from a parent asking if I could fitness train an autistic child. I had been a high school baseball coach for over 10 years. Much of my expertise in fitness had come from various experiences in working with athletes in strength and conditioning programs, working in fitness centers, through textbook study, and apprenticing other fitness experts. I also had 10 years of experience working as a behaviorist with autistic children. I had a sound understanding of both areas, but this was an opportunity to combine the two. I quickly discovered that despite the fact that people with autism face many physical challenges, there wasn’t much information out there or programs that addressed this area. In order to work with this child, I would have to start from scratch and develop a program tailored specifically for him.
When I began my research, I started to think about what was available to the autism community. School programs, like Adaptive PE, really didn’t address the issues I was going to try to work on. One problem I saw with APE, during my years as a behaviorist, is that it focused too much on teaching how to play certain games or sports, which I found to be too abstract, with not enough focus on getting the kids to move and use their bodies. Instead of focusing on functional movements, these programs produced more frustration because of the slow paced activities. I then questioned why people with autism don’t go to their local gym or just hire a trainer. This was obvious. First, even if a parent hired a personal trainer to work out their child, there was no guarantee that the trainer would have any understanding of autism and the challenges that accompany people living with this condition. Secondly, therapists like myself, don’t always have the fitness background to be able to work on the fitness side in a safe and knowledgeable way. Needless to say there weren’t many resources out there, so I was going to have to develop a program through the combination of my two experiences in both the fitness world and as a behaviorist.
I began to think about all of the different children I had worked with in the past and the physical challenges they faced each day. Many of the kids I had seen shared many similar physical characteristics like low muscle tone, poor coordination, lack of strength, lack of flexibility, balance issues, and overall limitations in their movements. Then there was the neurological aspect that impacted their physical functioning. Challenges with motor planning and sensory integration (proprioception and vestibular) were the most evident.Communication and behavioral challenges are also common among children with autism. Taking this into consideration, it became clear why there weren’t many programs out there for people with autism. There were so many issues that made it difficult to produce such a program. Safety was the first thing came to my mind. Initially I was uncertain how I was even going to get a child with autism to perform the basic functions of fitness. Although I had a great deal of experience in working with kids with autism on the behavioral side as well as many experiences working with neuro-typical people on the fitness end, I had never combined the two. Many autistic people are very out-of-shape and have significant gaps in their strength and mobility. With this in mind, I began
characteristics. Many of the children had bodies that had low muscle tone, very weak posterior chain and core muscles, tightness in the lower half, and very soft upper bodies (Physical). Some of the kids I met had difficulties with balance, coordination, motor planning, agility, the ability to perform compound movements, and be accurate in movements (Neuro). There were also deficits in communication, attention, and behavioral issues, which made it difficult to motivate them to perform for an extended period of time. Let’s face it; exercise can sometimes be painful and hard, especially in the beginning. To get the best results in each workout I focused on strength, compound movements, strengthening a specific muscle groups, and work on the constant varying functional movements at a high intensity.
It takes time to get the kids accustomed to the workload, the pacing, and to gain confidence in the movements. There are times when I need to be more of a motivational coach, than a fitness coach. It is definitely a process. All of my students are making gains in one way or another. Working on physical fitness has its obvious advantages when you consider the health benefits but when it comes to people with autism, the benefits are even greater. I have received feedback that fitness training has impacted things like: sleep patterns, energy levels, mood, attention, communication and behavior. One of my students expressed that exercising helps him to feel his body better. He also feels
it has been helpful with his pointing (typing). Exercise gives kids with autism added satisfaction and increased self-esteem when they connect their brain and their body and even strategies to deal with excess energy. Recently, the mother of a client told me that her son requested to do some pull-ups in the middle of a behavioral therapy session. He then proceeded to continue to perform his own routine of sit-ups and push-ups in combination until he relaxed.
Fitness is an area that has far too long been under utilized in the lives of people with autism. My mission is to change that, through my company, Special-Fit. I want to thank all of my students for inspiring me and helping me develop this program. It was because of the relationship I’ve created with them and their families, that forever changed the way I view people with autism. They have taught me more about breaking through limitations than any other individuals I have met in my lifetime.
Michael Ramirez
Posted in autism, exercise, fitness, health, muscle development, Special-fit, working out
Ido in Autismland
Here is my NBC piece. I hope you like it.
Posted in Ido in Autismland, Ido Kedar, NBC
Forum
It has been a long time since I posted a blog. The purpose of this blog is to express the truth I have experienced in Autismland. I felt happy I had the opportunity to help other people with autism, or their parents, or specialists. To my joy, I have received feedback that my book or blog has transformed the way people see their kids. The feedback from students in grad school and some professionals has also made me hopeful about the future. It is so important for professionals and parents to hear the point-of-view of people with autism. The irony is that we are generally not able to communicate in any of the usual modalities of speaking, writing, gesture, or even facial expressions, so the ability to explain is not yet available to everyone, though I hope one day it will be. Because the message is not mine alone I hope to be presenting the words of other non-verbal people with autism on this blog, as well as parents and professionals. Stay tuned.
Posted in autism forum
My Radio Interview for Autism awareness Month
Here is a playable link to the radio interview my mother and I did with Autism Spectrum Therapies in Honor of Autism Awareness month. My interview starts about ten minutes into the broadcast. My segment was pre-recorded because otherwise there would have been a lot of silence while I typed my replies.
Hope you like it.
http://www.voiceamerica.com/guest/16686/ido-kedar
Trying to Understand the Incomprehensible
Posted in emotions, good and evil
Challenge
Every day of my life I face a kind of moral dilemma. My autism makes self control very difficult. It takes more effort to sit still in class than to do the intellectual work. I have big personal goals for myself. I prefer to have a full life than a hidden, bored one in some remedial class like most other severely autistic people. It is my mission to help them get an education too. None of this is a dilemma. I am clear on my goals, but I struggle morally with my inner forces. My body is programmed in a different way than typical people. It has internal orders that differ from my mind’s intentions. My struggle to control myself is to be kind to others, thoughtful of the space of others and not disruptive in class. Each day I remind myself to do this because it is the right thing to do in spite of how hard it is to accomplish.
Posted in autism, autism education, mainstreaming, self control
Oscar Pistorius
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Truth Over Theory
Posted in autism theories
Behind the Silence
Posted in body responsiveness, motivation, non-verbal, Team Hoyt


